Wednesday, 17 March 2010

The Last Single Guy

It upset me that sometime people say things that are come across as condescending because I am not in a relationship.

I am getting more and more comfortable with that fact that someday I may or may not find someone that I love and that loves me back. We will love each other for who we are and tolerant those silly things that each other does that drive the other nuts. Maybe my imagine companion is just that, imaginary. But compromise, in this instance, is not an option. Compromise would mean unhappiness. I would much rather be single and happy then with someone just because and unhappy.

I do not want my daily grind and day to day acts to be in constant search and looking for love, always on the prowl. It is a waste of time. I will miss on the other great things that life has to offer. If there is love out there for me then we will find each other.

As I get older more of my friend are in relationships. It makes me so happy to see them happy and that is what i want. True happiness not just being with someone because. Sure it was fine to be single before i was in my 20's but now that I am 30 it is like a switch flipped and it is a problem or there must be something wrong with me and that is why i am still single. It is true I am not getting any younger, however I know who I am now. I could not say that before. I also know that I look and feel better then I every have. Just read about it in the Looks Better Nekkid posts.

I am not better and no worse then a person in a relationship or another singleton.

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