A good friend from high school told me she was engaged this week and I am so excited for her! It got me thinking... I am invited to the wedding and I may be going by myself to another wedding yet again. Everyone else that maybe coming that was in our high school class is married or in a long term relationship (i think anyway).
Just makes me wonder why I seem to be having such a hard time date? Yes i know that some of it is myself being "high maintenance" or I say know what I want and not willing to compromise but there must to be someone out there. Isn't there? Does that mean there is no one? Or is there something that I am just to silly to understand? I just don't know. I have not been able to come up with a system or knowledge for more successful dating practices.
In hopes to find a work forward and keep going I offer this letter to the Universe and my hopefully so to be significant other
To you my Immortal Beloved,
I can hardly await the days that we will be together. We will be two whole navigate life together in tandem. Sometimes we will have our separate time to do our own things but never being the half of the other. We are and will be strong individuals in life together.
I cannot wait until we are sharing the love of a health and well life. I promise i will not call you out too much when you are taking my classes at the gym or during a workout, and if i do i will treat you to a Phil & Sebastian's as we are leaving the city to go to the mountains with the dogs in the back seat. Just don't make me go skiing or boarding when it is too cold our else i will get very grump and need to be thawed out for days.
I am excited for the times that the family will be at the house and we can have bar b q’s with the parents, brothers, sisters, nieces, and nephews all chilling out in the yard enjoying the time we all have with each other. Hopefully you will have a well practice bluff for those poker night with friends since I am terrible at it. Can you play some soccer too? Im sure it will be fine I just run around the field and swing my legs anyway and sometime I actually hit the ball. Be patient with me in other sports as I have no idea how most work, just tell me what is going on.
Just a reminder that I like hot destinations for holiday over going somewhere cold, thats only a guideline. Beaches and I are very close. Lots of great places are cool (London, Paris, New York, Chicago, Montreal, Berlin) so I would be excited to go because our love and light will keep me warm.
Know that every now and again its ok for us to have a nice quiet dinner and movie night in (we can take turns cook and clean and if you don't want to cook I will and you can clean I cool with that), with some great music and wine to help it along is always a good thing.
Please do not wear socks and sandals, crocs, or white socks with dress pants out side the house. Inside I will tolerate it cause it’s your house too but I would disown you in public.
Work hard but not too much too long and I promise I will be the same.
Your faith
Colin
I hope that this can help with what I want to find in my partner.
If you have ideas or suggestion i am a solutions kind of guy so let me know.
