This has been the dreaded question for me from a couple people over the last months. Are you too picky? In reference to dating, being in a relationship and having a significant other (or lack there of).
So much pressure for them to be in a relationship and get married. I feel great about myself and my life until someone says something like that.
Yes I would like to be in a relationship. I see my family and my friends married and how happy they are and of course I want that.
However I do not want to be in a relationship just to be in one, just to say that I am not single is not worth it to me.
So to answer the question am i too picky.... well yes. I know what i want. It is a relationship that i want for the rest of my life. I do not really want to try twice or three times or more for the long term. Sure there will be smaller ones on the way to test the waters and see. If it is not working there needs to be a change. Why would i keep doing something that causes pain, hurt, stress, and anger in the long term just so i don't have the single attached to my name? To me that just does not make sense and not worth all the trouble.
Someday I will find my someone that we will want to spend time together and share the rest of our time here on this lovely amazing planet but I am going to still enjoy my time and make the best of what I already have.
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